Monday, May 25, 2015

A WELFARE NATION...
Created By Broken Homes By Marshall Frank


Insanity definition: "Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results."

In a perfect world, all children would grow up in secure, loving families with a mom and dad, good role models and plenty of love. Alas, the world is not perfect. And the less perfect it becomes, the worse it is for all of us, not only those who are trapped into despair, poverty and neglect.

Kids who come from broken homes are lucky to have parents who still talk to each other, who love and care for the child, and who support, educate and meet psychological needs. Too often that's not the case. Some fathers abandon their duty-bound responsibilities. Why? Because they can.

A 2012 study of deadbeat dads, aired by CNN, indicates that $100 billion a year was owed in unpaid child support. Taxpayers pick up the tab for nearly half that amount in the form of non-reimbursed welfare. Mothers comprise 82 percent of the custodial parents in broken home situations. Child support payments represent 45 percent of their income. Single mothers with multiple kids rely mostly on welfare for total income.

Recent studies show that 1.6 million babies are born to unwed mothers every year. Among blacks, 73 percent of new babies have no father at home, leaving mothers to bear the burden. For Asians, 17 percent; Whites, 29 percent.

It's not only about financial support. Spin-off problems can be worse. Sure, it's important to clothe and feed children, but needs go beyond physical welfare. It is equally important to develop kids into well-adjusted youths who do not turn to the streets for negative love and attention outside the home.

Aye, there's the rub, the unseen, unmeasured consequence of dysfunctional or abusive parenting, or no parenting at all. Psychological damage to children can ultimately cost taxpayers far more than child support checks, particularly after kids reach puberty and engage in behaviors that land them in jails, rehab centers or county morgues. Meanwhile, taxpayers must bear the costs of fighting crime and trauma, not only within the justice system, but in emergency rooms, property loss, physical loss, lost wages, victimization costs and more.

What kids from broken families seek out in the streets is what they often don't get at home: acceptance, attention, guidance and feeling important. Thus, the substitutes. Boys enter gangs. Girls sell bodies. Kids use drugs — to belong. Any mention of morality is laughable. And we pay for it all.

Street gangs are replete with stories about mothers who had multiple kids from miscellaneous fathers who never felt the need to be part of their children's lives. The mothers get all the help possible from Uncle Sam. Deadbeat dads get a free pass called welfare. It absolves them of responsibility, not only for paying money, but for their precious time and commitment. Moms are better off staying unmarried because the government is a sure thing, the dads are not. It's a vicious cycle.

When you hear about aberrant teens, violence and gangs, remember that most of these kids never had a chance from the moment they were born. Many were born of dysfunctional teens themselves, grossly unprepared for motherhood. They never learned how to parent because their parents were just as dysfunctional.

The Great Society of President Lyndon Johnson, it seems, has backfired. It was all about expanding welfare. From 1965 to 2008, according to Forbes, $16 trillion had been appropriated for welfare programs for the poor. That's increased another $2 trillion since. Johnson may have meant to eliminate poverty, but it created a dependent society instead. When Johnson was president, more than 75 percent of black babies were born with fathers in the family. Dads stayed home to help raise kids. Not today. Meanwhile, we continue to hear the same old drumbeat about the need for government to spread the wealth and take care of the poor. Seems that hasn't worked very well.

I guess we must be insane.
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Frank is an author and retired police detective who lives in Melbourne. Visit his website at...

www.marshallfrank.com

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1 comment:

SNAKE HUNTERS said...

Editor's Note - Let's Attempt To Review This Complex Problem:

** Big Progressive Government Creates Dependent, Irresponsible Welfare Families **
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This results in millions of deadbeat dads that feel no responsibility, and the
bewildered, uneducated moms try to feed & clothe too many kids, that sneak out at
night to join their thug friends... that commit extremes of violence... in places
like New York City, Chicago and Baltimore. Young blood stains the street corners.
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The Grim Irony: Politicians have created this problem; And Cops Get The Blame.
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Your prudent, anonymous opinion is welcomed here; first name & town please.
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